When Nature Calls, Where You Gonna Go?

If you are uncomfortable using the public restroom of your gender or the gender you are presenting as, there is some good news: an online tool that locates gender neutral restrooms.

Refuge Restrooms "seeks to provide safe restroom access for transgender, intersex, and gender noncomforming individuals." Refuge is trying to fill the gap left by the Safe2Pee website, which departed from the Internet recently.

You can contribute to the success of Refuge by submitting gender neutral restrooms that you are aware of that are not already listed by Refuge. Monetary contributions will also be helpful.

For what it’s worth, I have never had an issue using the ladies’ restroom. So far, I’ve patronized ladies’ rooms in Connecticut, Massachusetts, Ohio and Pennsylvania and I no longer hesitate when I have to go no matter where I am. And by the way, ladies’ rooms are typically much nicer than men’s rooms; try it, you’ll like it!

 

 

 

A woman in menswear and a femulator in 2004.

 

 

 

Wearing Madeleine.

The Fabulous Four

I am a big fan of The Beatles, so I am enjoying all the nostalgia about the group's first visit to the USA 50 years ago.

After seeing The Beatles first appearance on The Ed Sullivan Show replayed countless times over the past week, I am surprised no one mentioned that John's microphone was dead during the performance. You never hear him sing that night. You only hear the voices of Paul and George. John mouths the lyrics, but you can't hear him!

Anyway, two things are stuck in my memory about those days.

--- Being a budding radio hobbyist, I had a transistor radio by my side 24/7 and I remember being impressed that The Beatles had taken over rock radio. It seemed as if all the rock stations were playing wall-to-wall music by the Fab Four for weeks, perhaps months on end back in 1964. I had heard nothing like that before (and nothing like that since).

--- Being a novice femulator, I was impressed that the Beatles wore "long" hair and high-heeled footwear... just like girls wore! Were skirts and makeup next? Will boys be dressing like girls real soon now? 

I had high hopes and thought, "Don't let me down." But I should have known better.

Prisoners of war femulating on stage during World War I.

Wearing Ali Ro.

Play Drag Ball

Yesterday, we learned about Geschlechtertausch (Gender Swap) thanks to Aunty Marlena. Today, thanks to Aunty Marlena again, we can view photos on flickr from one of the better womanless beauty pageants this school year: the Jackson (Alabama) High School Baseball's "Dude Looks Like a Lady" pageant.

UPDATE: Sorry, but the photos of the pageant were removed from flickr. The flickr link now only displays the cover of the program for the event. And so it goes. 

 

 

 

Actor Alex Grelle femulating on stage in Scarrie: The Musical in 2012.

 

 

 

Wearing Ramy Brook.

Geschlechtertausch

Aunty Marlena discovered that Geschlechtertausch (Gender Swap) is a popular event among students in German high schools and she sent me a load of links showing examples of German boys and girls as girls and boys on Gender Swap Day. Instead of listing all those links, Google Geschlechtertausch yourself and Google will turn up hundreds of images for you just like the ones below.

 

 

 

Femulators competing in the 1974 installment of the National Cotillion.

 

 

 

Wearing Delphine Manivet.

Boys and the Joys of Body Shapers

 

 

 

Femulator in street style circa 1965.

 

 

 

Wearing Melissa Masse.

Diana Prince Vs. Wonder Woman

I am very tired of maintaining a double identity. Compartmentalizing my life is work; I don't know how many brain cells I use trying to remember who knows what and how much they know. And I feel dishonest about it in a lot of ways. I am out to a lot of people and I have the green flag from my employer to come out at work. But I do not want to upset the applecart at home, so I will soldier on like Clark Kent and Diana Prince.

 

 

 

Marie-Christine Bouvier, a beautiful femulator from Germany.

 

 

 

Wearing Rachel Pally (top), Tibi (skirt),
Loeffler Randall (bag) and Edmundo-Castillo (shoes).

2934/7

Today marks the seventh anniversary of Femulate!

After 7 years and 2934 posts, I think I deserve a day off, so I will leave you with something different and I’ll see you tomorrow.

 

 

 

 

Proud mother and her son, a womanless beauty pageant queen.

 

 

 

Wearing Victoria’s Secret.

What’s on his mind is on his derriere

 

 

 

Jack Benny femulates as Gracie Allen on television’s The Jack Benny Show, circa 1955.

 

 

 

Wearing Dsquared2 (top and shorts) and Alexander Wang (shoes).