The Million Dollar Question

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Exóticos!

Exótico Pimpinela Escarlata

Maybe I need to get out more, but here is something I never heard of until Michelle alerted me about it: professional wrestling in drag! Evidently, exóticos are a thing in Mexico.

According to Wikipedia, Exóticos are male wrestlers who appropriate feminine aspects in their wrestling personas or “gimmicks” – through feminine costumes, for example, “contesting the dramatic representation of machismo” and successfully unmanning their opponents in the ring while also “rejecting the outward signs of manhood.” Though exoticos may not necessarily be gay, they often are, and their sexual ambiguity is undeniable. Attired with feather boas, headdresses, sequins or stockings, they defy a religious Latin culture that is ardently macho.”

Reminds me of Gorgeous George, a mid-20th Century American professional wrestler who used feminine gimmicks. For some reason, my mother enjoyed George’s antics. She also liked Liberace. Did her fondness for the effeminate have anything to do with my effeminate nature? 

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Exótico Pasión Kristal

Girl Time!

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65-years-young, Nina, long-time Femulate reader

Felicity Chandelle, Pilot and Crossdresser

By Jan Brown and Dallas Denny

This photo of Felicity Chandelle initially appeared in Mariette Pathy Allen’s book Transformations. Felicity is sitting in a chair in front of an old photograph of her mother and a child. That child is Felicity, dressed as a young girl

Felicity Chandelle, known in some circles as Captain John MacDonald Miller, was present at the very beginnings of gatherings of crossdressers on the East Coast of the United States. She led a long and distinguished life in both of her modes of presentation. 

This article is based upon a workshop we did together about Felicity at Trans Week 2023. If Trans Week is a name unfamiliar to you, know that it was formerly called Fantasia Fair. This year marked the 49^th annual gathering in Provincetown on the very tip of Cape Cod. Next year, the 50^th, will be a blow-out event and you are invited. If you are reading this you are welcome, of course, to register, but if you just show up in P’Town, you’ll find others like yourself with whom you can socialize, enjoy fine dining and free admission to daily keynotes and purchase tickets for sale at low prices to three of our evening events. Come if you can. The dates for Trans Week 2024 are October 20 through 27, 2024.

Our workshop came about because Jan and Felicity were friends. Before Felicity passed away at age 102, Jan helped her donate her crossdressing materials to the LGBT Center in New York City, where they’re available to view and study. Jan wound up with two photo albums from 1961 and 1962. We recently scanned the more than 200 photos. The images will soon be added to the wonderful Digital Transgender Archive, but for now, you can peruse them on Dallas’ Google Drive.

We begin with the story of Captain Johnny Miller.

Captain John MacDonald Miller

Flying

At age ten, in 1915, young John Miller was spending his free time at the Curtiss Flying School at Mineola on Long Island. There, Zagria Cowell writes in her Gender Variance Who’s Who website, “she encountered Ruth Law, the third American woman to get a flying license.” By seventeen, Miller had taught himself to fly and was earning money by barnstorming and giving rides to pleasure-seeking customers. He was the stunt flyer for the 1935 film Ladies Crave Excitement.

Captain Miller takes off from the roof of the U.S. Post Office in Philadelphia, 1935

In 1931, Miller was the first person in America to buy a PCA-2 autogyro, which could perform nearly vertical ascents and descents. He was the first to make a transcontinental flight across North America in a gyrocopter. For this, he was in competition with Amelia Earhart. Miller knew, among others, Amelia and Charles Lindbergh; he was present when Lindbergh took off from Roosevelt Field on Long Island for his successful nonstop flight across the Atlantic Ocean.

Miller flew mail for the U.S. Post Office and is known for the first mail delivery by gyrocopter. On May 27, 1935, he departed from the roof of the post office building in downtown Philadelphia and landed in Camden, New Jersey. 

He served as a pilot in the Marine Reserve and as a qualified naval aviator. In 1937, while serving as a test pilot for the Kellett Autogiro Company, his aircraft disintegrated around him, leaving him, according to various sources, either relatively unscathed or with a broken neck. 

Miller was one of the earliest airline pilots. He began flying for United Airlines in 1936 and switched to Eastern Airlines in 1939. He was an airline pilot until 1964, when he was fired after public exposure following an arrest in New York City for having violated an anti-masking law by being crossdressed. He pled not guilty and was convicted, whereupon he took his case all the way to the U.S. Supreme Court, which refused to consider it.

Four of Captain Miller’s aircraft are preserved in the Air and Space Museum in Washington, D.C. He was chosen as one of two pilots honored at the 100^th anniversary of the Wright Brother’s first flight at Kitty Hawk; the other pilot was Neil Armstrong, the first person to set foot on The Moon.

Captain Miller was married twice, both times to women who knew of his crossdressing. He and Katherine, his first wife, had three children. After her death in 1963, he married, Edith, a physician. She died in 1991.

John’s older sister, Lee, was a live-in companion of painter Pablo Picasso and the subject of fourteen of his paintings. Felicity said that when Johnny was young, Lee would dress him as a girl.

One of 14 paintings of Lee Miller by Pablo Picasso

John Miller was an exceptional pilot and by all accounts, an exceptional human being. There’s so much more we could say about him! Here’s just one tidbit: He held a patent for a rifle scope mount of his invention, the first that would stay in register after the scope was removed and reinstalled. He manufactured the mounts in his garage and sold them worldwide.

Miller, who spent his early days on Long Island, eventually moved to Poughkeepsie, where he met Jan. 

John Miller died of natural causes in 2008 at age 102, two years after his last flight, at age 100. He holds the record for being the world’s oldest pilot. His last words to his nephew were, “I guess my flying days are over.”

Felicity Chandelle, 11-12-1961, posing with a friend’s Corvette

Felicity

Apart from a couple of childhood incidents, John didn’t crossdress until 1960, when she took up the practice with enthusiasm. 

“There was absolutely no sexual impulse, just the love of the clothes and the pleasure of being a different person, in public.” She never crossdressed in private. “Underclothing held little interest for me.”

Felicity stood  6’2” (1.88m), but assumed that she passed, although others observed that she was usually read. She developed a reasonable contralto voice, quite different from her masculine baritone. She always tried on dresses in the shop. It is told that she went up to a policeman in Times Square pretending to be from Texas and got him to take her photograph. (Source: Zagria Cowell, 2011)

Felicity, November 9, 1961

Felicity, November 9, 1961, inscription on back of photo

Felicity was always well put together and fashionable. Like many crossdressers, she was a fan of photos of herself and she frequently posed in formal dress. She owned a variety of fur stoles and capes and wore them often in hot weather. According to Zagria Cowell, She kept an apartment in New York City specifically for crossdressing. She was friends with Virginia Prince and put her up once in her apartment. Virginia was mugged during her stay. 

Jan met Felicity when she joined the Mid-Hudson Valley Transgender Association, a support group. By that time, she was unable to drive and attended only when someone was able to bring her to the meetings. 

Jan says, “I remember one evening when I got dressed at her home, attended the meeting, and came back to change at her home. I could see from the front door that she was asleep in the chair in the living room. I rang the doorbell and she slept on. I knocked several times and couldn’t wake her up. She didn’t stir even when I pounded. I went around to the window by her chair and pounded on it, but she didn’t stir. I ended up going to my workplace to change. No one saw me and I was able to leave without a problem, but I certainly didn’t want to make this a regular occurrence!”

For the occasion of Felicity’s 100^th birthday, her support group gifted her with a makeover. Afterward, she looked into a mirror and said, “Geesh, I can do this myself!”

In the more than 200 photos we scanned from Felicity’s 1961-1962 photo albums, there were many images of her, but in the interest of brevity, we provide only one; follow the link we provided above for lots more. Fortunately, Felicity made notes on the margins or backs of most of her photos, thus, we know the dates and subjects for most images and for some, the location.

Thanks to Virginia Prince’s Transvestia magazine, Felicity soon met other crossdressers in the New York area. Since the early1950s, Marie and Susanna Valenti had hosted crossdressers at their apartment at 875 West End Avenue in New York City, and their Chevalier D’Eon Resort in the Catskill Mountains. Later, they would sell the property and buy another resort in nearby Hunter, New York, which they called Casa Susanna. Recent discovery of photos from the Casa Susanna years resulted in a book, a Broadway play by Harvey Fierstein, a movie by French Director Sébastien Lifshitz, and many articles in the popular press—but Felicity’s photo books predate the opening of Casa Susanna by a couple of years.

Roster, the Playgirl Club, 1961

Felicity’s albums center on the first two get-togethers of the “Playgirl Club,” hosted in Poughkeepsie, where she lived; and almost certainly at her house, as she hosted the meetings. Neither of us had heard of the Playgirl Club, which was probably short-lived, but some of the players showed up later in the Casa Susanna photographs, including resort owners Susanna and Marie Valenti, noted science fiction author, member of the Futurians, and co-founder of Ace Books Donald A. Wollheim, and the one and only Virginia Prince. 

We’re certain many of the attendees of the Playgirl Club meetings can be found in the pages of Transvestia, Michel Hurst and Robert Swope’s Casa Susanna, and collections of early photos held by the Louise Lawrence Transgender Archive in Vallejo, California and The Transgender Archive in Victoria, British Columbia. Bobbie Davis of the Louise Lawrence Archive and Dallas have been working together to trace these linkages.

The materials Felicity and Jan took to the LGBT Community Center in New York are catalogued as the Felicity Chandell Papers and include personal correspondence, often with photos, receipts, newspaper clippings and comics, event brochures, newsletters, product catalogs, Tri-Ess directories and early books on crossdressing. 

We conclude with a few photos from Felicity’s Chandelle’s 1961 and 1962 photo albums. In addition to being one of the twentieth century’s most notable and well-known pilots, Felicity has gifted us with a significant piece of trans history.

Here Captain Miller has to leave the Playgirl Club’s first party to pilot an airliner.

Donald A. Wollheim sits between Gina and Suzy

Virginia Prince. Note the developing stamp on the right margin. 1963 is about the time she attended a supper at Casa Susanna to promote her magazine and her group Full Personality Expression.

Dinner at Casa Susanna. Virginia Prince is first on the left with a white top. Felicity is at right in a black dress. This photo is from Hurst and Swope’s book Casa Susanna.

Joe Biden to trans Americans: “I have your back!”

Joe Biden tells trans Americans in his State of the Union address: “I have your back!” Click here to read more about it.

Meanwhile, nothing but bad news from his predecessor and his ilk. 

Birthday

Thank you for your birthday wishes. 

I had a great birthday. My family took me to the casino and I came home $600 richer! Followed by dinner at one of my favorite Mexican restaurants! Cake and more gifts at home. And lots of love.

What a great day!

Wearing Boston Proper

Zach Cregger (right) femulating in television's The Whitest Kids U'Know.

Male Woman

73 today and counting

Today is International Women’s Day. 

As we prepare to celebrate International Women’s Day, our resolve to keep pushing for gender equality is stronger than ever. And we won’t stop until girls and women are equal everywhere.

That’s because equality is her birthright, enshrined in the UN Charter, but it isn’t her reality. Despite some progress, there is no place or part of life where a girl or woman has the equal rights or opportunities as a boy or man.

As a male woman, I am very sympathetic to these goals. Though some would say that I have “male privilege,” I would argue that male women are treated worse than cisgender women and I yearn to achieve the same equality sought by women.

Even living much of my life disguised as a male, my natural femininity marked me as less than a man and I was treated accordingly by both males and females. 

Living as a male woman is an improvement. Living as my true self, females seem to embrace me as someone who had joined their team. On the other hand, some males treat me even more poorly than they did when I was in my male disguise. I am sure that all male women have had similar experiences and also long for gender equality.

Wearing Ann Taylor

Bud Flanagan femulating in the 1946 British film Here Comes The Sun.

One Thing Leads to Another

Recently, Pinterest sends me emails featuring Pinterest images that it thinks I might be of interest. So hot on the high heels of yesterday’s Prom Time post, Pinterest's email included an image of two young fellows, Thayne and Tristan, wearing gowns that could be considered as prom dresses (image right). What a coincidence!

I was curious about Thayne and Tristan and Googled them to see if there were any other signs of them femulating. Nothing was discovered, but there was a Google reference to another “Tristan,” a transwoman in Kansas City (MO) who was voted as homecoming queen at her high school.

Thayne and Tristan (left), Tristan Young and Landon Patterson (right)

I Googled her (Tristan Young) story and not only was she selected homecoming queen, but her and a previous transwoman homecoming queen at the same high school, Landon Patterson, were honored by the Kansas City Council, which issued a resolution dedicating LGBTQ History Month to both women (click here to read all about it on the GLAAD website).

This is old news from last fall, but with all the transphobia closing in on us these days, it did my heart good to read about the support our trans sisters received from their community – especially in an area of the country that is not known for trans friendliness. Hurray for our side!

And in case you missed it, please visit my Saturday post all about taking action against the anti-trans legislation now in the works across the good ol’ USA.  

Wearing Paige

New Zealand soldiers Ralph Dyer, Douglas Morison and Harold Robinson (boy photo) performed as female impersonators in Kiwi concert parties in the Pacific and Egypt during World War II. (The two on the right, Morison and Robinson, switch positions in the girl photo.)