In brief... 1. Do for your trans coworker what you do for everyone else. 2. Stand up for us when we are not there. 3. Help us go to wo...

The trolls had a field day with The New York Times article I mentioned here in my previous post, Coming Out at Goldman Sachs . Here is a...

I very much like this story about Maeve DuVally's coming out as a woman at Goldman Sachs. I can see myself in Maeve's shoes if on...

Despite major wins within the LGBTQ community in recent years, many transgender and non-conforming gender individuals feel there’s still ...

Wednesday was my last day at work. I thought about going to work as Stana, but I did not. The CEO came to my cube about 10 AM to wish m...

My status at work changes on a weekly basis. If you have been following my soap opera,you know my boss was let go two weeks ago. She ...

It's lucky for the sake of my job that I work in an engineering environment. There are 70 employees in the division where I work and...

ad nauseum - a Latin term for a discussion that has continued so long that it has continued "to [the point of] nausea" (Source: ...

I spotted someone crossdressing at work yesterday! A 20-something blonde, who works in Human Resources was crossdressed as a male. She ...

I wrote here awhile back that my manager, a male, was let go in the fall of 2009. A female replaced him and she reported to a male VP. T...

After I ate lunch at work on Friday, I went to the kitchen to get a fresh cup of coffee and I found my best female friend preparing a sala...

Human Resources sent an e-mail out yesterday titled "Dress Code." We expect you to report for work in appropriate attire. The i...

"My name is Stana." I received an e-mail yesterday afternoon from a reader who posted a comment earlier in the day, but wond...

This year, Halloween falls on a Monday. There may or may not be anything "official" going on at work Halloween-wise, but I plan...

The memory of a dream I had overnight is fading fast. I was dressed en femme for an event that some of my co-workers were attending. I e...

Last night, the temperature was down to 11°F in my neighborhood and down to 5°F where I work. The forecast was that the temperature would ri...

Dear Stana, I absolutely love your blog and visit it several times a week. I really appreciate the time you put into making your page wort...