Four years ago, I created a transwoman bucket list, that is, things to do in your life as a woman. Readers suggested additions and I made some additions, too.
Heather recently emailed me the list with the items that she did do, didn't do and did not want to do, so noted. She also had a bunch of additions.
Her email motivated me to update the my list and post it here. [A checkmark (✓) indicates an item I accomplished;
X indicates an item I am not interested in accomplishing.]
- Appear in the media ✓
- Attend a black-tie event ✓
- Attend a cocktail party ✓
- Attend a school reunion ✓
- Attend a wedding ✓
- Attend female-only/oriented events ✓
- Check in/out of a hotel ✓
- Come out to everyone
- Compete in a womanless beauty pageant
- Dance ✓
- Dress en femme more often than not... ultimately 24/7
- Drive a car ✓
- Drive cross-country ✓
- Flirt
- Get a bra fitting without breast forms ✓
- Get a bridegown fitting
- Get a corset fitting ✓
- Get a driver’s license
- Get a girdle fitting ✓
- Get a makeover ✓
- Get a manicure and pedicure
- Get a tattoo(s) X
- Get a wig fitting ✓
- Get breast augmentation X
- Get castrated X
- Get ears pierced
- Get hormone therapy X
- Get other piercings (other than ear piercing) X
- Get rid of my varicose veins ✓
- Girls' night out with genetic females ✓
- Go on a date
- Go out to eat ✓
- Go to a casino ✓
- Go to a concert
- Go to a hair salon to get a feminine hairdo
- Go to a movie ✓
- Go to a public beach
- Go to a support group meeting ✓
- Go to a non-transgender convention ✓
- Go to a transgender convention ✓
- Go to church ✓
- Go to Diva Las Vegas X
- Go to Fantasia Fair ✓
- Go to the mall ✓
- Go to the polls to vote
- Be a juror
- Go to the theater ✓
- Go to work ✓
- Go to work daily, not only on Halloween
- Grow my hair long
- Kiss ✓
- Live full-time for an extended period of time ✓
- Live full-time 24/7
- Make love
- Make-out
- Model in a fashion show ✓
- Perform on stage
- Permanent facial and body hair removal
- Pluck my eyebrows ✓
- Public speaking ✓
- Shop for a dress and try it on in the store’s changing room ✓
- Shop for groceries ✓
- Shop for shoes ✓
- Sing ✓
- Speak with a convincing feminine voice
- Take a continuing education class
- Take cooking classes
- Take sewing classes
- Travel by air
- Travel internationally
- Tuck ✓
- Undergo Sex Reassignment Surgery (SRS) X
- Use public transportation (taxi, bus, rail) ✓
- Use the ladies' restroom ✓
- Wear a bikini in public
- Wear a bra and breastforms 24/7
- Wear a one-piece swimsuit in public ✓
- Wear fingernail polish in public ✓
- Wear toenail polish in public ✓
- Write a book about femulating ✓
Your additions are welcome.
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| Wearing Alexis mini-dress (Source: Moda Operandi) |
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| Simon Cuz, male womenswear model |
