On Friday, I posted the story about attending my former employer’s Christmas luncheon en femme after I had retired. They invited me back again the following year, so as a follow-up to Friday’s post, I am telling the rest of the story today.
Thursday (December 20, 2018), I attended my former employer’s Christmas luncheon party.
I wore my Julia Jordan gunmetal fit-and-flare dress, Dress Barn off-black pin-dot tights and Nine West metallic platform pumps. Instead of accessorizing with silver jewelry as I originally planned, my wife suggested I wear something colorful for the holidays, so I wore a red necklace and red earrings.
As I began to fill my old tired-looking black handbag, my daughter gave me an early Christmas present: a red Kate Spade handbag! I was so surprised and happy with her generous gift that I almost started to cry, but I held back my tears so as not to ruin my makeup.
I left the house and drove to the banquet hall hosting the luncheon. Usually I wear my heels when I drive, but the platform pumps are about a half-inch higher than my usual footwear and that half-inch or so made it difficult to manipulate the three pedals under the dashboard, so I wore flats to drive and switched to heels when I arrived at the banquet hall.
I entered the hall and when I checked my coat, the three women staffing the front of the hall said they loved my outfit. One said she wanted to buy shoes like mine.
I found a seat at a table with my former co-workers and it was just like last year’s Christmas luncheon when I wrote, “It was as if I showed up in boy mode.” Folks greeted and chatted with me like old times. The fact that I was presenting as a woman made no difference.
I realize now that it did not matter if I showed up in boy mode or girl mode. Rather, it mattered that I showed up in Stan mode. In a dress or slacks, I am the same person that my former co-workers knew for 20 years and I think most of them were glad to know me just as I was glad to know them.
Wearing New York & Company |
Cyrsti (left) at Christmas dinner with her wife Liz. Cyrsti blogs at Cyrsti’s Condo. |
Paula Gaikowski toasts to Happy New Year. |
I wish my feet would shrink! It would make my choice much easier.
ReplyDeleteStana, please blog a fictitious story of your attendance of the 2022 xmas party. What would you wear.? Hugs Brenda. You can mention the co-worker in the mail room being a secret admirer of yours
ReplyDeleteI look forward to your blog. My podiatrist told me a part of the aging process is shrinking of the natural body fat of the feet. My clunky guy shoes feel lose after about a year and I need new shoes. I love reading of acceptance by your wife and daughter.
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