Wednesday, July 14, 2021

Not Out and About

My previous Creative Cocktail Hour
appearance, October 2019
I was so looking forward to Thursday because I was planning it to be my first post-pandemic en femme outing among the civilian population of Connecticut. I even purchased a new dress and heels for the occasion and I have been dying to wear them out. 

My plan was to attend the first post-pandemic Real Art Ways monthly “Creative Cocktail Hour,” but I will have to postpone my coming out until next month.

For most of this year, I have had on and off pain and swelling in my private areas. I hoped it would go away on its own, but of course, it did not and it got worse as time marched on. So I finally visited my doctor last month and the diagnosis was an inguinal hernia

If I sit on my dupa all day, I am fine, but if I start walking around for a bit, the pain begins and lasts for hours thereafter. As a result, I have given up my daily one-mile hikes through the woods, as well as all outings en femme.

The good news is that I am having surgery to correct the problem later this month. My surgeon is using a new procedure that reduces recovery time to a few days, so hopefully by this time next month, I will be out and about en femme as Goddess intended.



Source: Paige
Wearing Paige


Joey
Joey out and about in a big box grocery store

18 comments:

  1. AnonymousJuly 14, 2021

    Dear Stana ,
    This week was the first time I saw a femulator at the grocery store , she looked very nervous , I think going out grocery shopping enfemme is for many very first time out in public . I have very often wished to do the same . I hope your surgery goes well .

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    1. I wore a black dress and heels for Halloween one year to work and to go grocery shopping. No one batted an eyelash at all, and I was quite calm.
      Stanley (Stana), may your surgery go well and may you heal quickly.

      John

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  2. Sally StoneJuly 14, 2021

    I hope your recovery is quick and easy Stana. Best wishes!

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  3. Stana,

    Have a quick and successful surgery. Our prayers will be with you..''

    Davina

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  4. Dear Gussie, if it ain't one thing, it's another!

    Sorry to hear you've been suffering. Prayers from here for a successful procedure and a speedy recovery.

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  5. Hope you are back to the walks and getting out appropriately dressed real soon!!

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  6. Glad you are attending to your well being. The whole world is looking forward to your click-clacking re-entry. Cheers m'dear!

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  7. Diane SmithJuly 14, 2021

    I had the inguinal hernia procedure way back in 2001. Although no surgery is fun or pain-free, even back then, it was by far the easiest time I've ever had in the OR. I went home the same morning, felt immediate relief, and was feeling pretty much back to normal after a week of rest. It could only have improved since then. I know they will treat you well and you'll be back out in the world soon. Good luck!

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  8. AnonymousJuly 14, 2021

    All these years Stana, you were saved by your girdles. The pandemic comes and Stana is sans girdles. Wa-la, hernia time. The take-away ? Wear girdles for health and vitality.
    Actually, I am wishing you a successful procedure and quick recovery.
    You will be back in your girdles and hose in no time

    Angel Amore

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    1. AnonymousJuly 14, 2021

      Medical evidence suggests that tucking itself is a frequent cause of inguinal hernia. Forewarned.

      Best-Susan

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  9. AnonymousJuly 14, 2021

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  10. Sorry to hear about your pain and its cause. I hope your surgery goes well and you recover swiftly. Sue x

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  11. All the best with the surgery and subsequent recovery! May it be swift and liberating (in revserse order).

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  12. Ouch Stana, that really is painful. Good luck with the surgery. May you have many wonderful en-femme outings as soon as possible to look forward to.

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  13. AnonymousJuly 14, 2021

    Wishing a speedy recovery,
    Penny from Edinburgh.

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  14. Welcome to the club. I had laparoscopic surgery a few years ago for a double I final hernia. Fun times. I was back at it pretty quickly. I think I had to quit running for 2 weeks, but otherwise, a couple of days.

    Camille

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  15. AnonymousJuly 19, 2021

    As a long term, though mostly silent, follower I just want to wish you well with the surgery

    Deni xx

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  16. Hope your surgery goes well

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