When my wife was pregnant, I hoped that our baby would be female because I feared that I might not be an adequate role model for a son. I was very relieved when a daughter showed up instead of a son. Turns out that my daughter has been very supportive of my transness; who knows if a son would have been the same.
As a father myself, I'd prefer to dress like a mother. Such is the paradoxical life of a transwoman on Father's Day.
Wearing BooHoo |
📺 William Phipps (blonde in mink stole on the right) femulates in the 1951 film No Questions Asked. |
My father was the typical pre-Boomer narcissist. We never got along. I do, however, wish that we had a better relationship if only because I'd really like to know where his Playboy Club key went after he passed.
ReplyDeleteHis second wife (I will *NOT* call her a stepmother) probably threw it out.
The only way to spend fathers day is to be in femulation mode and not worrying about the past but just being in the momemt
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