Wednesday, July 2, 2025

Making Up: The Rest of the Story

Yesterday's post described how to make up your eyes. Here’s a detailed and easy-to-follow guide for applying makeup to the rest of the face, specifically tailored for girls like us aiming to feminize and soften masculine features.

Prep Your Skin

Cleanse and moisturize: Start with clean, moisturized skin. I cannot recommend moisturizer enough and recommend using it everyday even if you are not being a girl that day.

Shaving Tip: A close shave is key (I use a gel shaving cream with a multi-blade razor). Follow with a soothing, non-greasy moisturizer or aftershave balm.

Primer (optional, but I always use primer): Use a smoothing or pore-filling primer to create a clean canvas and reduce the appearance of texture or beard shadow.

Color Correction (Especially for Beard Shadow)

Use a peach or orange corrector:

Dab a peach corrector over blue/gray beard shadow or orange for deeper complexions.

Blend with a sponge or fingers. This step cancels out unwanted tones before foundation.

(I used a corrector in my youth, but no longer use it because my beard is nearly white and does not shadow.)

Foundation

Choose the right shade: Match to your neck and chest for a seamless blend.

Application:

Use a sponge or foundation brush. (I use a liquid foundation, so a sponge is my application tool.)

Start in the center of the face and blend outward.

Build up in thin layers for more coverage where needed (like beard area).

Concealer

Use a lighter concealer under the eyes.

Blend well with a sponge or brush.

Setting Powder

Lightly dust translucent powder over your face to set your base and prevent shine.

Press powder into the beard area to reduce texture and set coverage.

Use a smaller brush under the eyes or jawline for extra definition, if desired.

Contour and Highlight (Face Shaping!)

Contour (for a softer, oval face shape):

Use a cool-toned brown powder or cream.

Apply under cheekbones, along the jawline, sides of the nose, and temples.

Blend thoroughly for natural shadowing.

Highlight:

Use a soft shimmer or light matte highlighter on cheekbones, brow bones, bridge of nose and cupid’s bow.

Blush

Adds warmth and femininity.

Apply to the apples of the cheeks and sweep slightly upward toward the temples.

Go for soft pinks, peaches or mauves depending on your skin tone.

Lips

Prep: Exfoliate and moisturize.

Lip Liner: Define your lip shape—overline slightly if desired for a fuller look. Use a well-sharpened lip liner pencil starting the line at the middle of the lip and work outwards to the end of the lip line following the curve of my natural lip line

Lipstick or Gloss:

Choose a flattering shade (rosy pinks, mauves or nudes are good everyday options).

Gloss or satin finishes can feminize the lips more than mattes.

Use a lipstick brush to apply the lipstick. A brush provides better coverage where you want the color and avoids putting color where you don't want it.

Close your mouth on a piece of tissue paper to remove any excess, then apply a light coat of translucent powder on your lips (this will hold the color for a longer period of time).



Reapply or touch up your lip liner, then reapply your lipstick. Apply lip gloss if desired (sometimes I do, but usually I don’t).

Pro Tip: Lighter and shinier lips often look more feminine and youthful.

Finishing Touches

Setting spray: Mist your face to lock everything in and soften the powdery look.

Check in natural light: Always look at your finished face in daylight or near a window—it reveals any unblended spots.

Extra Feminizing Tips

Jawline: Softly contour under the jaw to minimize squareness.

Nose: Narrow a broader nose with subtle side contouring and a highlight on the bridge.

Forehead: Contour at the temples can visually lower a higher brow ridge.

Be pretty!



Source: StyleWe
Wearing StyleWe


Richard Chamberlain
Richard Chamberlain femulating on television’s The Drew Carey Show.

Tuesday, July 1, 2025

Doing Your Eyes

I have been femulating for over 60 years! Over that time, I have done my eyes in different ways, but “lately” (like the last 20 years or so) I have been using the same routine to do my eyes and I thought I would pass along my routine to you. So, here’s a, step-by-step guide for applying eye makeup tailored to girls like us, especially those new to makeup.

Prep the Eye Area

Cleanse and Moisturize: Start with clean skin. Apply a lightweight, non-greasy eye cream to smooth the skin.

Primer (optional, but I always use it): Use an eyelid primer to prevent creasing and make colors pop.

Conceal and Even Out

Under-Eye Concealer: Dab on a peach-toned concealer to neutralize dark circles or blue/gray tones from beard shadow or tired eyes.

Set with Powder: Lightly dust with translucent powder to lock it in place.

Eyebrows – The Feminizing Frame

Shape: If needed, groom brows with a trimmer or tweezer. Aim for a soft arch—not too high or too sharp.

Fill: Use a brow pencil or powder close to your hair color to define the shape. Blend well for a natural look.

Tip: A slightly higher arch helps feminize the face, but avoid the villainess “drawn-on” look.

Eyeshadow Basics

Neutral Look (Great for beginners):

Base: A matte cream or beige all over the lid.

Crease: A taupe or light brown in the crease to add depth.

Highlight: A light shimmer or satin shade under the brow and inner corner to open the eye.

Application Tip: Blend, blend, blend! Use a fluffy brush for smooth transitions.

Eyeliner

Top Lid: A black or dark brown pencil or liquid liner close to the lash line will define the eye. Slightly winging it upwards adds a feminine lift. (I constantly switch between pencil and liquid eyeliner – the classic a woman can change her mind!)

Lower Lid: Optional. A soft smudge of brown or gray pencil under the lashes works well. Avoid harsh black unless doing a dramatic look.

Mascara

Curl upper lashes with an eyelash curler first (30 seconds in the curler does a great job). 

Apply black or dark brown mascara to both top and bottom lashes. Wiggle the wand at the base, then pull upward for volume and lift. When the mascara has dried, do it again. 

Tip: Before I do it again, I use a lash brush to comb out any mascara lumps that occurred during the previous mascara application.

Smile

Now smile with your eyes, pretty girl!



Source: Paige
Wearing Paige


A modern bridal party (femulators Heather, Dawn, Nicky, and Jemma, masculinator Jules, and femulators Stephi and Nadine)

Monday, June 30, 2025

Stuff 77: Long Nails

By J.J. Atwell

Press-on Nails?

When I dress I love to use press-on nails (Kiss brand usually) to make my hands look a bit more feminine. How about you? 

Some CDs have difficulty finding press-on nails that adequately cover their own nails. I’m fortunate that I have relatively small hands and my own nails aren’t that wide. So I have a wide range of choices in nail color and length. For some reason though, I’m a sucker for longer, red nails. Yes, I do have some shorter ones. And some pink or French manicure style press-ons. I try to select a style, color and length that compliments my outfit and is suitable for the occasion. 

Some Things Are Harder

My normal guy nails are nothing special. I do get a manicure every two weeks combined with a pedicure every second visit. But I just get a normal guy manicure with clear polish. By the way, nobody has ever mentioned the fact that I wear clear polish on my nails in guy mode. If you haven’t had a manicure you are missing a fun experience. 

In guy mode, I don’t have to think about how to do things with guy nails because they are my everyday reality. But I find that in girl mode, when I use the press-on nails I need to make adjustments. Trying to pick up something small off a hard surface can take several attempts. Using a touch screen device sometimes requires tapping with a knuckle instead of a fingertip. Those are just a couple of examples of things I’ve learned to do by trial and error. I think the biggest issue is that using press-on nails is an abrupt change for us. We don’t get to learn as our nails grow over time or deal with them day-to-day as women do. 

Still, I enjoy seeing feminine looking nails when I’m dressed. Just looking at them on the steering wheel driving or when I’m picking up my beverage at a restaurant – those are some of the different sensations that I enjoy experiencing when being JJ. 

I’ll Be Back

As always comments are welcome either here on the blog or by email to Jenn6nov at-sign gmail dot com. JJ is always looking for more stuff so if there is something you would like to read about please let me know!



Source: Ann Taylor
Wearing Ann Taylor


Diedrich Bader
Diedrich Bader femulating in the 2005 film Miss Congeniality 2:Armed & Fabulous.